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25. Concern for Rama and

Her Character

During their forest days, Sitaji stayed in a small hut. If and
when Rama was not present, Lakshmana would sit outside
and guard Sita from evil men or forest animals. But he would
never sit inside with Sita. Neither of them would feel alone
or sit chatting with each other. Such was Sitaji’s alertness for
safety of her character. She would sit back and contemplate
on Lord Arihanta’s teachings and hence save herself from
being dragged into negative thoughts. Compare this to the
present relations between young guys and girls and you will
feel shameful.

Following the trap laid by Ravana, Rama went out to protect
someone. From there Lakshmana heard the sound of a lion
roar which indicated that Rama was in trouble and required
Lakshmana’s help. Inspite of knowing this, Lakshmana did
not move away from Sita’s side. But Sita persuaded him to
go and help his brother. She instigated him, “Your brother’s
safety is important. My protection is secondary.”

She sacrificed her safety for husband’s security. Ravana got his
chance and abducted Sita in Rama and Lakshmana’s absence.
Inspite of this occurring, Sita did not regret her decision of
sending Lakshaman to protect Rama.

Why so ?

Husband’s security was a good deed, her duty. You should
never cry over it. Even if you are trapped in some adversity
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