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preserve good thoughts. Only then will good activities
           successfully produce such good thoughts. For example, a
           person is regularly listening to sermons inspiring the practice
           of celibacy and developing dislike towards lustful actions but
           there is absolutely no control in his conduct; instead, he is
           deeply engrossed in sexual activities. Then how can he develop
           and strengthen his hatred towards it? His activities completely
           contradict his goals. This should be understood for other

           religious acts as well. If there is no control or reluctance in
           carrying out sinful activities, it is difficult to create hatred
           towards them.

           Inspite of listening to the evils of anger and the benefits of
           forgiveness, if he gives his anger a free vein and is happy
           when it subjugates his opponent, how will he be able to truly
           despise anger? For that he will have to strive to control anger

           to some extent. If not completely, he should atleast have
           remorse over his anger. Even a little control and remorse in
           the beginning will prove elemental in detesting and discarding
           anger completely.

                    The weirdness of our regret over anger

           Analyse your weird thoughts and acts – are they in sync with

           my interpretation?

           You say, “We cannot control anger but surely consider it as
           our weakness and hence regret it.” Now, when do you regret
           your anger? If the opponent immediately accepts his mistake
           and begs pardon, do you regret your anger then? Or do you



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